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STUDENT LIFE: A LIFE FULL OF PRESSURE

Students, who are termed as helmsmen of development, face many kinds of pressure throughout their life. Well, life is not easy when you are given the extra burden that you don’t deserve. From the very first moment you step towards the educational life, you  have to bear pressure. Every parent wants their children to top the exams. In Nepalese society, you have to face one extra taboo, the society. Society in Nepal has a different way of pressurizing students. They don’t mind their business but get busy backbiting about the children who don’t even relate to them. Another factor that pressurizes students in Nepal is the extra burden from the teachers and the school as well. In many places of Nepal, students are literally beaten up for not following the way they are told to. There are different ways of harnessing student’s future, physical violence is never the solution. In a world where you deserve a fresh environment, where you can do what actually you are interested in, ...

Irishway, How it all began: My childhood memories

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The experiences that I have gained till date are unforgettable. It goes without saying that my childhood was more than just a learning experience. I shall always cherish those memories! The story I’m about to share is a story not only of my childhood but also of the lessons that I have learned throughout my childhood. On the day of 18th June, the youngest son of the family was born to Mr Binaya Raj Pokharel and Manju Sitaula Pokharel; it was one of the happiest moments in life for the Pokharel Family. I was given my name, Irish, by my aunt. That’s how an inquisitive bright child came into existence with unfolded stories and undecided future. At the age of three, I was admitted to a school, Prativa Academy, Birtamod, Jhapa. I still remember crying and shouting at my mother for leaving me in the school alone with crowds of strangers. Time breezed by and at the age of six, we moved to our hometown Bhadrapur, where my grandparents stayed. Now came the phase where I spent my longest c...

Psychology – Try Balancing It For A Happy Life!

My name is John. I can’t describe what I feel or what is really going inside my mind. Sometimes I feel suffocated when I see myself not adapting to the environment in which I was brought up. While sometimes I feel like the happiest man in the world. I don’t understand what is going inside my mind. Sometimes I judge people and their behavior whilst sometimes I question myself, how could I even be so judgmental? I have lived two and a half decades of my life, but I am still confused about my attitude and the way I present myself to people around me. Maybe I expect a bit too much from people. Even a short conversation makes me wonder if I did say something wrong. Often I realize that I cannot impress every other person I meet, but my emotional attachments to these people compel me to overthink about my attitude. My educational background has many ups and downs, I have had the experience of being a failure and also a topper. I had always tried hard to do my best, yet the reality always...

LOVE: A JOURNEY OF MIXED EMOTIONS!

Love, a four letter word that can melt every stone-hearted person. Well, I was once a stone hearted person and the same four-letter word changed me to a person who I am now. I don’t want to disclose how many times I fell in love with different people but trust me you can never feel the pain that I felt falling in love back then - a person who used to listen to Metallica andPink Floyd songs started listening toBon Jovi, and John Legend. The thing that changed me was her love. Her presence always made me feel special. I still remember the fragrance of her that mesmerized my heart. Every morning, I used to wake up to stand beside her and speak of every small thingthat happened to me. A person who remembered Valentine’s Day as a normal, cold day had started feeling its importance and started saving pocket money to give a small piece of my heart to my princess. If I had a time machine I would go back and enjoy those memories once again. I don’t know how my sleeping time changed from...

POVERTY,A PROBLEM NEVER SOLVED!

Poverty a word that none in the life want to hear or bear. Living in Nepal most of the citizen here are favorable with this term. A problem that every upper government officials say to destroy but just in vain. Around half and more than the total population here are poor. None wants to bear this pain but they are obliged to suffer the pain. do we really care about this topic?, I guess no unless you have your comfort zone with you. There is a vast discrimination among the so called rich and poor. Rich people are always valued the most. According to Charles Darwin, the one who struggles only exists same is the case here. The poor who try their best to struggle and earn a living are always betrayed by their fate while the richer one without struggling live a prosperous life. Poverty is not a problem. It is something the society mistakes with having low social standards. Every second a poor is slandered with cheap comments which not only decreases their morale but also creates a ill fe...

SILENCE!

Hypocrisy, the term that describes the world as it is now. Being frank all of our lives as a whole in a nutshell itself is hypo critic. What overwhelms us the most?  The probable answer is silence. The act that one like the most is being, silent. Being ruled by the dictators like Mussolini , Adolf Hitler , Joseph Stalin might be the reason behind us being silent. We are brought up from that scenario. My point is it is pretty fair to be silent in the place where we actually needed to be but it is never the solution. People might confuse my point on being violent , but what I am actually trying to say is you better be violent rather than portraying an unusual silence. Life comes once, and it itself is a platform for expressing yourself to the fullest! You might be wrong at some point but it’s sometime is good to be wrong than to be lone deep down in the heart. Mediocrity, a term that basically clarifies the people’s condition  in the present context. Being silent is itself i...

WHERE MY COUNTRY LACKS? AND WHAT’S NEXT?

Nepal, a country with great ‘diversity, a great belief and yes a great fascination for every Nature lover. A country that has been going through real bad times at present context. Whenever a child is born in a society, he wakes with a dream of being great mattering element of the society, by the time he grows up he gets his dream shattered. He is either bounded by poverty or by the unnecessary pressure that our society creates. A youth with great qualification and dedication tries to do something for the country but the does not get the appropriate platform and hence searches opportunities abroad. Well the truth is always bitter but according to the current scenario , we have started living in a blind fate.  Nepalese, always proud of their countries are now forced to doubt on their existence. A country which takes years and years to implement a constitution, where female participation is always abused just because of their gender, where you get quality education when you are b...